Girl Selling Her Virginity To Pay For College

by Broke Grad on September 16, 2008

Natalie DylanHow far would you be willing to go to pay off your student loans?

A 22-year-old Sacramento State grad seeks to pay off her student loans by auctioning off her virginity at the infamous Moonlight Bunny Ranch in Nevada.

Using the pseudonym Natalie Dylan, the 22-year-old virgin is ready to sell her virginity to eliminate her student debt and to finance grad school.

“I think empowerment of women is picking yourself up and doing something on your own to better yourself,” says Dylan.

Natalie Dylan’s stepfather allegedly applied for student loans in her name and then ran off with the money, leaving her with the debt. After earning her bachelor’s degree in women’s studies at Sacramento State, she plans to get her master’s degree in family and marriage counseling beginning in January, but she needs a way to pay for it.

From a purely financial point of view, I must admit — this plan is brilliant. From a moral point of view, it’s debatable, but don’t be too quick to judge her. Natalie says her virginity won’t simply go to the highest bidder. “I’m looking for intelligence and an overall nice person,” says Dylan.

“When I was younger, I wanted 100% romance, possibly even wait for marriage. But as I grew up, reality kinda hit. And I think its a capitalistic society, and I want to capitalize on this,” explains Dylan.

With bidding up to $250,000 already, it looks like she may be well on her way to capitalizing on her 22-year-old virginity. I think it’s time to update my list of 25 tips and ideas for paying back student loans and unusual ways to get money for college.

For more details on the story and to watch a video interview with Natalie Dylan, check out: Sac State Grad Selling Her Virginity For Tuition

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1 FruGal September 16, 2008 at 4:17 am

Call me a prude, but what kind of counselling is a woman with those type of morals going to provide anyone?

2 Blake September 16, 2008 at 4:48 am

I’ve seen something similar before, and I’ll bet this one turns out similar. In that case some uber-rich dude won the auction, then donated the money to the girl without taking delivery of the ‘service’.

This girl is applying the fun ‘would you ever….?’ hypothetical game to real life.

3 Jamie September 16, 2008 at 11:34 am

I hope Blake is right about the outcome of this. I’m the first to admit that losing your virginity is not necessarily special, romantic, or with someone you even care about. But that doesn’t mean it should be a commodity.

I would love to get rid of my debts, too, but I’m not about to turn to prostitution to do it. Instead, I got a better paying job and we changed the way we budgeted our money to have more to put towards debt. I can’t help but feel like she is taking the easiest way out of this, not to mention getting publicity and attention which it seems like everyone wants. I’ve got zero respect for this girl.

4 Carol September 16, 2008 at 5:32 pm

Have we really come to this?
I can not believe that she can’t get her student aid in some other fashion and I’m not so sure about the story of her step-father getting the money and not being held responsible.
I have to agree with FruGal, what type of advice could you expect from someone with this lack of morals?

5 Craig September 17, 2008 at 12:23 pm

As sad as it seems from a business perspective it’s actually a great marketing ploy and in this country someone is sure to pay the price. If nothing else it will get them publicity and even if it’s negative, sometimes any publicity is better than no publicity.

There are people out there who have bad morals who don’t sell themselves. You can’t judge her based off of this and who knows, she maybe she does have some intelligence to offer to the world.

From a personal reflection the girl is extremely ugly and is nowhere worth the price of $1 Mil.

Craig
http://www.budgetpulse.com

6 Doctor S September 17, 2008 at 12:26 pm

Great business idea because someone out there will pay for it.

As far as morals and ethics are concerned, this girl is as low as you can possibly get. Imagine what her parents feel like, I would love to meet them and ask them about their daughter. I am sure she has zero respect for her parents. What is this girl going to do with a million dollars? I doubt she will do the right thing with it, she will blow it all and it will be gone.

No difference between her and a prostitute or the famous “Stripping my way through college” story.

7 Cali Angel September 17, 2008 at 1:04 pm

so how is selling yourself bettering yourself? I wouldn’t be surprised if she took that money and ran off with it herself… with bids like that, why even go to grad school? I wouldn’t want her counseling anybody I know… i’m sure whoever wins that bid is a married business man…

8 Francois Viljoen September 17, 2008 at 3:11 pm

She wants to be a marriage counselor… what is this world coming to?

9 Nicole September 17, 2008 at 9:28 pm

I agree completely with Jamie and have no respect for this girl. There are alot of people out there in the same boat as she is, yet she feels she deserves to get money by selling herself. Its prostitution no matter what way you look at it. I have to pay 100,000 back in student loans when I am out of college so she should get a job and work her ass of like the rest of the people who do it.

10 Uncommonadvice September 18, 2008 at 3:57 am

Good on her. Some nutty pervert will pay up. She “lies back and thinks of England” and it’ll be over in seconds. This is Capitalism!

If you don’t like it then go and live in the USSR (if it still existed)

11 Craig September 18, 2008 at 6:26 am

I couldn’t agree with you more, I think what she’s doing isn’t right, I’m playing devils advocate here. Just cause you or others think it’s wrong, who is anybody to tell her she can’t do this? She is taking the right way to go about doing this by setting it up in the “legal” moonlight bunny ranch. I don’t suggest you or anyone else should look as this as a quick money scheme to make money, and think hard work is the right way. But she’s doing this on her own, no one is forcing her, so let her be.

Craig
http://www.budgetpulse.com

12 vanessa September 18, 2008 at 2:37 pm

what this girl is really saying is that the empowerment of women is turning into prostitution! I’m sorry but this is the way she’s putting it. She can do much better than turning into prostitution, which is what she’s doing. The REAL empowerment of women is bettering ourselves to become professionals. I feel that she is just a bit lazy to get up, find a job, and work real hard to pay off her loans. What kind of professional will she be with this kind of morality? And I doubt that she will be taken seriously later on as a professional because who will want to hire her? This will certainly NOT look good in her portfolio, and what kind of sane person would go to her for counseling advice?????!

13 robert September 18, 2008 at 4:30 pm

I doubt anyone that will be looking for counseling would research their counselor all that much, in 5 years no one will remember her. Most ppl TRUST that their professional counselors would be moral ppl, or at least more stable then themselves.
Wouldn’t surprise me if this never negatively effected her career down the road, assuming she doesn’t decide to stay at this ranch and make her living that way.
I still find it all sad, regardless of how things pan out in the future, this cant be a stable person emotionally.

14 Budgets are Sexy. September 19, 2008 at 9:30 am

Absolutely brilliant! No way in hell i’d let my future daughter or any girl around ME do that, but i must admit she sure knows how to work it (no pun intended)

It’s one helluva post though, great job catching my ADD interest ;)

15 Savings Toolbox September 20, 2008 at 5:04 pm

LOL – update your list on ways to pay back student loans…

That’s about the only funny part of this whole story. On one hand it’s sad someone would need to resort to this type of stunt to get attention. On the other hand, how many hundreds or thousands of college students and single moms take to the stripper’s pole each night just to get by and earn a living.

It’s distressing to imagine other girls following such a lead and ending in bad results. Somewhere along the line someone could have taken some time to teach this girl and other girls how important a savings account is instead of just teaching an easy way out.

16 robert September 20, 2008 at 8:06 pm

Savings Toolbox
<————– agrees

17 Nicky Watts September 21, 2008 at 8:45 am

I’m a contemporary artists working on a project based on women who use their bodies as a means to fund their livelihood. I’m located in Nevada and would love your story to be a part of it. Please contact me if you’re interested.

18 Nicky Watts September 21, 2008 at 8:53 am

After reading a few comments, I just wanted to mention that many of the professionals that all of us work with on a day to day basis have either worked in the adult industry, or have funded it. The only difference is she’s admitting it.

19 Jamie September 22, 2008 at 9:12 am

What is wrong worth her be a real women and get a job. You are to cute and can better yourself. Stop being so desperate. Women like you give women like me a bad name. What is wrong with this world.

20 MEAGAIN September 24, 2008 at 10:02 am

Who do she think she is….first she claims to be a VIRGIN and maybe she has a million miles to her……..also only she would think she could land an idiot to pay her so much money if only these idiot knew that is much cheaper paying your wife or girlfriend to get their virginity store back..so this girl really needs to get her ass to work. And stop trying to get someone else pay for her crap…Cause of women like her we are treated with no respect…. GET A LIFE

21 Mya September 30, 2008 at 10:38 am

People give up their virginity at the blink of an eye for nothing, young girls have sex with tons of men/boys for free everyday that’s what is digusting. Having sex while in elementary school/middle school on the back of the school bus is what’s degrading. This is a grown woman making this decision. I don’t see a single post about how digusting it is for these men to be bidding for this. If these men weren’t bidding there wouldn’t be an auction at all. Women prostitute themselves to their boyfriends and their husbands everyday, think about how many times you have made love to them to get what you want. Marriage is just a legal way of prostituting yourself. People need to just get over it, this has been the way for hundreds of years so stop with the moral crap and do what’s best for you and your life. Who the hell are you to judge.

22 Mya's my type of girl October 1, 2008 at 4:17 am

Go Mya go! I am in total agreement – except it’s been 1000′s of years not 100′s. Not a single other person here has pointed a finger at any of the guys who are paying for this (and yes I’m a guy).

It takes two to tango folks.

23 Kristin October 1, 2008 at 3:50 pm

This just goes to show that we arent living in the 50′s anymore. (not that i would know what it was like) but im sure in all reality our grandparents would never come up with a plot like this. And the most foul part of it all is the fact there is a dirty rich man that will bid that! She isnt all that pretty and needs to understand that debt is part of life. Shouldnt bite off more than you can chew! Its very true that it is women like you that make women like me look bad. It is very much prostitution and she should be arrested for this.

24 Realistic Ryan October 1, 2008 at 8:34 pm

I hope this stupid cunt gets “won” by a guy who takes her back to his hotel room where he has 300 guys or so waiting to gang fuck her. Seriously, stupid people like this should be shot…not celebrated or treated as different.

Perhaps a few more glamorized whorror…err, horror stories about how stupid decisions lead to drastic results would prevent people from trying to put some dollar value on things like self pride/worth and then putting their “morals” up on ebay.

25 Nicky Watts October 1, 2008 at 11:56 pm

Do you realize that you just wished someone to be gang raped? And do you realize what that means?

Nothing that she is consensually doing to her own body even remotely deserves rape to be wished upon her. Or to be called a cunt.

By your comment I assume you have never experienced it yourself, or know of anyone who has.

I am embarrassed for you for being so ignorant and careless.

26 Didi October 5, 2008 at 1:35 am

I really do believe that people should do whatever they want and need to do. I personally could not do this, I’m going to be 21 in a few days and I’m still a virgin, People think its because of I’m a lesbian. I’m not sure if thats the case or if I would still really be a virgin if I was straight but sleeping with a man is one of my greatest fears and I really hope that I never get so drunk that it happens, I wont know how to do it. Education is worth so much to her that she will apparently do anything to pay for it.

27 Andrew October 5, 2008 at 7:21 am

What’s the difference between this girl and a street prostitute? She has much better advertisement and much higher hourly rate :)

28 Ease My Debt October 5, 2008 at 12:11 pm

Thanks for your honesty Didi. I hope you meet someone really kind and gentle who earns your trust.

I think people should stop giving this girl so much flak. Good on her for being bold. She’s al;ready said she’s not going to do it with just anyone – and it isn’t necessarily the highest bidder.

When people get older sex becomes something we ‘re often a little less hung up about. There are many people who go out every weekend to pick someone new up… I personally find this a little distasteful. But it does highlight a difference in attitudes and prejudices from what I see here in the comments.

She’s not a prostitute, she hasn’t even had sex once and she’s in her early twenties. In this regard shes the antithesis of prostitution.

Lets give her a break.

29 Ibrahim | ZenCollegeLife.com October 7, 2008 at 7:15 am

As innovative and creative as this idea is, I could not condone this. I understand the way society sees sex as being different than my own views. But I’m not sure this is a ‘moral’ way to make money.

As for this being prostitution, I’d have to disagree. Prostitution is a career, a line of work. This is a stunt. An interesting act of creativity.

I’ve realized throughout my years that there are many ways to make money. I could have started a couple of niche celebrity blogs and gossip blogs and made 10 times what I make at http://www.zencollegelife.com, but for me the money isn’t pure. No its not as bad as selling cigarettes and alcohol or opening a casino, but I want to make a good honest living. I want to be paid for good hard work, not sleezy methods. So for me, this doesn’t do it.

I’d give her props on her ingenuity though. And to each his own, right?

30 Ibrahim | ZenCollegeLife.com October 7, 2008 at 7:23 am

After reading some of the other comments, I have to say something else…

Anyone who wishes bad things on someone else because they disagree with the other person’s beliefs has something wrong with them. That makes you a terrible person. Absolutely horrible. You should think next time before saying something so ridiculous.

She isn’t causing harm to anyone else. Not you, not your mother, not your daughter. They way she chooses to live her life is nobodies business but her own, and wishing terrible things on her is immature and just outright ridiculous.

I hope you see the error in your ways. I don’t know where you live, but unless it is a communist country or some sort of dictatorship, you don’t have the right…

Obviously, though, judging by your vocabulary, or lack there of, you are young and immature. You’ll learn.

31 passing back through October 7, 2008 at 11:41 am

Ibrahim is totally right, I dont agree personally with the woman, but I dont want anything BAD to happen to her. I have had terrible ppl in my life that have hurt me a great deal, and I dont want anything bad to happen to them either. Life hurts sometimes, sometimes it wonderful, and these various tides are what makes life so colorful and wonderful.
Any choice she makes is her own, and she will live with that herself, it really not anyone elses concern.
also Ibrahim i dig the site too, good stuff.

32 Aden Ardoin October 8, 2008 at 6:15 am

well i think that it is a damn good idea to do that! i think you should go right ahead with it and dont care what anybody else thinks but you!
adenn

33 LJ October 13, 2008 at 6:42 pm

like after discussion with my friends we came to wondering is how do we know if she’s a virgin?

34 Kristin October 14, 2008 at 8:23 am

LJ…
supposively they are testing her to see. She claims to be going to a doctor to prove that she is a virgin yet i agree with you how can you really tell? She says some things on you tube that she wants to clarify that she has not had “sexual intercourse” but has she been sexually active is the real question? Either way i believe that she is a disgrace to all women who believe that prostitution is wrong! Just because its held in a “legal whore house” doesnt mean it is right!

35 zak October 15, 2008 at 11:59 pm

wow. Would she still be considered a whore, even if she only had sex for money once?

36 kane October 16, 2008 at 3:19 am

Yeah Zak, the comments here appear to come mostly from narrow minded conservatives. Give her a break!

37 renn October 19, 2008 at 6:31 pm

i see a future whore
what will she do when money problems happen again
sell her other hole..lol

38 zak October 19, 2008 at 9:56 pm

ha ha ha

39 Randall November 3, 2008 at 12:05 pm

i think that girl is a man lol some dudes going to end up paying for dick!!!

40 pete November 7, 2008 at 12:58 pm

what a whore

41 Susan November 9, 2008 at 8:00 pm

I don’t know all who is calling her ugly, she’s pretty and curvey, not one of those twigs we have out in the celeb world. I think too that someone will bid and not collect the goods. But I don’t take any offense by what she is doing. It does seem a bit odd that her stepfather took out loans in her name and she is “stuck” with the debt…sounds a little fishy to me, and that makes me wonder about her story. Some guy started trading with a paper clip and ended up with a house. That’s a wilder story than this. Good luck to her.

42 dante November 12, 2008 at 8:07 am

the sex is going to suck. why bother?

43 Trevor November 17, 2008 at 1:44 pm

i support this woman 100 percent… i think it is a good thing… shes not doing it for the fame. shes not just doing it for the money. she is looking to better herself. shes not stupid. shes taking time to get to know the guys too, not just saying ok lets fuck and you give me the money.
and all this really shows is how much men are pigs. i for one don’t understand why prostitution is illegal, when millions of people give sex away for free.
if you really think about it… she is smart. she has something guys want and shes just putting it out there… i hope it all goes well for her and i hope it all works out.

I SUPPORT YOU NATALIE DYLAN!

44 Julia December 4, 2008 at 1:57 pm

#1- That girl don’t look like a virgin.

#2 – and SHE’S going to counsel marriage? I really think this act is going to ruin any chance she has of making money there! :-S

45 Amy December 16, 2008 at 9:41 am

What a great thing to teach children of our future. “No worries little Betty, you shouldn’t try to get straight A’s anymore for a scholarship, just whore your way through college!”

This sounds like a joke. A marriage counselor? Hahahaha. Also, how do you “better” yourself by having sex with some random scumbag who paid for it? Who thinks like that? Holy fuck, there is something wrong with society.

46 jEvans December 16, 2008 at 12:04 pm

Amy: Also, how do you “better” yourself by having sex with some random scumbag who paid for it? Who thinks like that?

AMEN!! Society is indeed wacked up!! Whoring our way though colleges will be the norm in 10 years, maybe less.

Sad.

47 TurtleBallz January 6, 2009 at 8:52 am

I believe she has some wonderful tatas and I would lick them….with my tongue. And my friend lashawnda would give hers up for 10 dorra.

48 Surviving A Recession January 9, 2009 at 6:43 am

A part of me wants to say that this story is very sad. But, another part of me wants to applaud her for using her “assets.” I am very conflicted about this. I am a father of a two year old girl and would feel like the biggest looser in the world if she had to sell herslf to the highest bidder to pay for college.

To each his own i guess. But, for me I would do everything in my power to make sure my daughter was never in this position.

49 Howard January 15, 2009 at 10:32 am

After all this is America. However you make money, legally of course, is your and your clients business. At least she is honest and up-front unlike so many other politicans, business owners, investment advisors, etc. Everyone in this country is such a prude but sex clubs are growing, watching porn is big and look at all the advertising on TV what types of men and women are showing their wares for who :)

Get a grip on life and let people be. DO YOUR OWN THING AND DON”T WORRY ABOUT EVERYONE ELSE!!!!!

50 Kate January 15, 2009 at 12:33 pm

I find it appalling that some of the women posting are so narrow-minded. Why should what one woman (or person) do reflect on their whole gender. Give me a break, are you trying to tell me that you as an individual are no better than some random unrelated representation of your sex? And you talk about becoming a “professional” to prove yourself. For those who question the girl’s story regarding her stepfather and loans, I don’t believe that it’s mentioned anywhere that she is responsible for the debt, but that because of the fraud associated with her name because of her stepfather, she is not able to get conventional financing for her education…that’s my read.

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